The Goddess Vesta is an archetype of two apparently contradictory energies: your spiritual calling and your inner erotic fire. These are only contradictory in modern times. Our ancestors knew that there is no separation between our erotic being and our spiritual being.Read More
I live by my expansive and liberating values of Freedom, Sovereignty, and Pleasure. Everything I do, think, say, or create is measured by alignment with these three values.Read More
“When our problems become too big for us our healthiest response is to expand our capacities . . . We become deeper, kinder to ourselves and others, and grow more capable of bliss.”
When I read these words, it dawned on me: This is what I do!Read More
This weekend, I was reminded of our power as women while we are working our magic, making life, making medicine. Yet the dominator establish fears our power and teaches us to fear ourselves.Read More
Sexuality is my area of expertise. It has been the center of my own personal growth, healing and reclaiming of my power. Orgasm and sexuality are jewels of expansion, creation, and higher consciousness.Read More
In yesterday's blog post, I shared the liberating news that women are designed for slow sex, and it changes everything for them. This will change your business too.
“It isn't that you are taking too long. You aren't taking long enough!”
When I teach women about orgasm and sexual empowerment, this is their biggest epiphany!Read More
Last week I taught Facebook how to make biscuits.
I made biscuits on a Facebook live video!
It was the most fun I've had in front of a video camera in my entire life!
HAVE YOU FOUND THE JEWEL IN YOUR SHAME?
A month ago on the longest night of the year, I took a walk as dusk began to enfold the woods. The message came:
There is a JEWEL IN YOUR SHAME.
WAIT. PAUSE. BREATHE.
I know you don't want to read about shame. I am commanded to write it, by the Goddess who adores you and calls you to her!
Shame doesn't want me to write this article, which I started a month ago!Read More
In pre-Christianized Europe, this spring festival time was dedicated to the Goddess of Renewal, Ostara. It is from her name that the word Easter derives, as well as the word East, the direction of the rising sun. She is the shining one, the goddess that brings renewal, rebirth, fertility and abundance. Many of her symbols--eggs, the rabbit, flowers, sweets--are incorporated into the Christian festival which co-opted her name.Read More
My friend Bill is a sensual master. He share the following recipe with me, worthy of a silver platter.Read More
One year ago I was beginning the grueling process of getting my old farmhouse ready to put on the market.
I was beginning the hard emotional work of letting go of 24 years of my home, my family, my late husband, my successes, and some broken dreams and failures along the way.
I didn't know what what coming... whether Charlie and I would stay together, whether I would have the money to live, a home somewhere, or a room in someone's attic.
(I can get melodramatic when facing big change!)
Now a year later, I can look back on a magical, blessed year!Read More
How to Make a Miracle According to Jesus
When I tell my story, I often talk about my sexually repressive Christian upbringing and how it hurt me. Today I am going to share with you one of the gifts of my growing up Baptist.
NOTE: I am in a miracle-making phase of life right now, and a repost of this article I wrote on miracles is timely.Read More
A Free Training in Sacred Pleasure
I've talked to many women over the years, and you've told me that matters most to you in your sex life is a sacred intimate passionate connection with your beloved. Remember that your number one Beloved is yourself. The key to sacred, intimate, transcendent, and healing sex is knowing your own sacred spot.
Jimi could have been talking about the United States government shutdown. All over the world, modern versions of gods and titans battle for power without regard for the consequences to life, to nature, and to people. What can we do to save ourselves and the earth? What is our powerful and effective response to the entities who love power without understanding the Power of Love?
Let me tell you a story.
Lilith stands for soul-level integrity, the kind of authenticity that will have you sacrifice rather than compromise. This is powerful. And it has a sharp double edge.
In Part one of Lilith: Triple Goddess, I introduced the three faces of Lilith as a Triple Goddess.
When one aspect of the Triple Goddess is active, the other two are also present. At first I did not think that Lilith shows up as Maiden/Mother/Crone. My listening throughout the day reveals that she is Maiden/Mother/Crone as the Dark Goddess.Read More
The solar eclipse of August 21 activated Lilith energy in two powerful ways: The Demonized Goddess and the original Feminine energy of manifestation.
After the Eclipse I meditated deeply on Lilith and listened to what she had to teach me.
Lilith is a triple goddess. So many aspects of the Divine Feminine are triple goddesses. Something about Three is a magic number of dynamic creative power within wholeness that shows up in many religious systems.Read More
Boundaries are up in my world these days. Clients, friends, myself are all feeling the shock of having boundaries violated in some way.
It is time to write a series of articles about boundaries:
What they are and are not
Different kinds of boundaries
How they work
How you find your own boundaries and hold them.
Boundaries are not one thing, they are many things.Read More
Last year I felt triggered almost every time I tuned into Facebook. The triggers were that there was something wrong with me because I am white. I felt constantly criticized and told I am wrong.
Now, no one was calling me out personally. I was a timid lurker in these mystifying and painful interactions.